I found out today that Ming has a new girlfriend -- wow the news came as a rude shock to me. But I accept it, because of course he has to move on, and of course I want him to be happy.
I bought him some presents for Christmas, and now I dont know whether to dispose of them, or to give them to him. I don't want to complicate things for him and the new girl. She is blessed.
I think true unconditional love is when you hurt because the person you care a lot for has given his heart to someone else (and you know he is a good person), but then, despite the pain, you wish him all the best and want him to be happy. I think that is true unconditional love - you don't need the person by your side, with you, owing him, to love him. This must be it.
I thank God for helping me to take the news well, and for giving me a chance to understand that i am capable of such a love as this. And I thank God that He is in total control, and he is helping me every step of the way, to be better and stronger as a person.
I want you to be happy, above all. Above all.