Ming's New Girlfriend

I found out today that Ming has a new girlfriend -- wow the news came as a rude shock to me. But I accept it, because of course he has to move on, and of course I want him to be happy.

I bought him some presents for Christmas, and now I dont know whether to dispose of them, or to give them to him. I don't want to complicate things for him and the new girl. She is blessed.

I think true unconditional love is when you hurt because the person you care a lot for has given his heart to someone else (and you know he is a good person), but then, despite the pain, you wish him all the best and want him to be happy. I think that is true unconditional love - you don't need the person by your side, with you, owing him, to love him. This must be it.

I thank God for helping me to take the news well, and for giving me a chance to understand that i am capable of such a love as this. And I thank God that He is in total control, and he is helping me every step of the way, to be better and stronger as a person.

I want you to be happy, above all. Above all.


Anonymous said...

I thank God for your maturity. May HE continue to guide you and bless you in all that you do. May HE be the centre of your life and that you will put all your concerns down at the foot of the Cross.

God Bless

Anonymous said...

How do you know whether to stay or to leave in a long relationship when there's love?

eStee said...

If 2 people love each other, why leave? unless one wants to give up and there is nothing left to fight for, then its better to move on. Many a times, you don't miss your water until the we runs dry...

Ylva Ng said...

i have been reading your post and i admire the way you are. :) i hope you stay happy estee!